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andyoldtop 63 M
1  Article
first time long time   5/5/2020

I was messing around with the computer one night.just looking at garbage, ,, nothing very interesting just crusing the net some how I got into a mfm chat room nothing to do I just listened to the conversation men joking around playing shooting the shit some times id comment on some stuff I was new.chatted a few times with some people I was just there to listen then one night a chat ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
DandR4hands4men 51 GC
1  Article
The Lost Art of Romance!!!   3/25/2016

I have to admit it. I am a queen looking for that fairy tale ending, with Prince Charming being my knight in shining armor and all that. I look at the soaps now, because it seems the most romantic guys in the world are characters wooing women for women on the television screen. To me, it just says that there is still a place for romance in our society. But what about the gay community?

I ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
cumlover20002 69 M
12  Articles
first relationdhip   3/2/2012

the first relationship is always the hardest as you never know what will cum or what will happen and that is the hardest part. but you have to try and see what will cum of it so i did and i was surprised to find that it was nerve raking to say the least. as i was looking on the gay dating site i noticed a gay man who was near my age and had the most wonderful profile, i sent him an emale and ...


5 Comments, 312 Views, 12 Votes ,6.86 Score
Billybuck69 70 M
1  Article
Unexpected beautiful man   8/23/2009

I see a new friendship coming. I went to have my cell phone updated yesterday. The male employee who waited on me was very polite. A young 24, dark skined male from India, shiny black hair, smile and positive attitude. The problem with my phone took more than a few minutes. Then there was this rush of customers into the store. A couple of them were not friendly but antagonistic. I told this young ...


4 Comments, 287 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
nut522 68 M
2  Articles
My New Relationship   6/30/2009

I've met this Man and a very caring Man on OP as of now we will have our true meeting soon.He is a sweet and caring individual..I have not been with anyone for 28 years and i have been scared to even proceed, But i said give it a try..I must say i am very Pleased with the out come and all the emails this Man has sent me i have kept everyone from the first..I will be with this Man and he will be ...


1 Comments, 362 Views, 18 Votes ,6.13 Score
11sexonly 49 M
13  Articles
First Time With Another Man   4/20/2009

First Time with Another Man This is 100% true story! I am no writer so please excuse my grammar and spelling. I have been bi for the past 4 years. It all started when my wife and I were experimenting with anal on each other. She always wanted to give me anal play and I always said that I was not interested. She said that she heard of a technique called prostate milking that her girlfriend told ...


8 Comments, 706 Views, 44 Votes ,7.62 Score
tanboy62 59 M
1  Article
how do you figure out if a profile is real   3/6/2009

New to all this gay web dating is there a way to find out who are fakes


1 Comments, 169 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
halfhorse57063 60 M
1  Article
I knew I was Bi when?   2/16/2009

It was about twenty years ago, me ans my girlfriend were out drinking and seen an old buddy of mine.. we invited him over for a drink. after we all got comfortable and a cpl of more drinks, she tells me she wants to watch a porn! Well yeah, I had picked up a cpl the day before and they were Bi cpls, and Gangbangs so were kicking it and she decides she wants to play with the TOYS in front of us, ...


3 Comments, 456 Views, 26 Votes ,4.43 Score
aching4u2 69 M
5  Articles
Beginning a relationship !   9/8/2008

I understand that this is not the place to find the one true love of my life but where do I look ? I doubt if EHarmony is going to accept me or "Plenty of Fish" ? I dont go to bars and I dont live in a city that is to the point of accepting Gays and Lesbians altho there are a few. I am tired of being alone and masturbating with a dildo or butt plug ! Do I move ? What ? Please someone give me a ...


2 Comments, 141 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
newlookerforyoun 65 M
1  Article
Dealing with a double life   8/8/2008

We all need the tender loving care in our lives to have less stress in our lives. We all want relase, or relaxation, and find it difficult to have that with one person. Living an alternative life style creates more stress, unless your comfortable with those who will always have negative thoughts of that life style.

So alot of people want to keep that alternative life style a secret from ...


4 Comments, 205 Views, 16 Votes ,6.80 Score
rowdy1941 82 M
7  Articles
Fear   6/21/2008

When you get right down to it, our greatest fear is rejection. When we see or meet a new guy that we would like to build a relationship with. Someone that seems perfect for you, that you have been searching for for years, how will we get past the fear of rejection. In your mind there is that dash of doubt, that little niggling of apprehension that we must overcome. Dont want to loose him, ...


2 Comments, 94 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
ronny55 71 T
19  Articles
Meeting and finding   6/11/2008

this should be in here and not the other section Michelle and I had met through a mutual male friend at a Street Rod show but I had met her as her male self, Mike and we hit it off right away. This happened about 10 years ago after my divorce from my first wife who for most of the marriage supported and participated in my crossdressing. Mike was a really good looking guy and I had fantasies of ...


1 Comments, 152 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
expat26 58 M
1  Article
Personals' Websites   5/25/2008

How many of you have found and built good relationships by meeting someone through a personals ad, either in print or online? I've known one couple (straight) who met through a print ad and ended up getting married. They're the only ones though of whom I know. Are there others of you out there?


0 Comments, 95 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
kvbicur23 42 M
1  Article
It is so hard to bear...   8/15/2007

When you know that you love someone and know that they love you back but don't understand them enough to build a solid ground relationship. My boyfriend and I have been having problems with regards to partially me, my family aggravating me everytime I talk to them and the stress that they cause me when dramatic things occur. It really sucks b/c I don't know what to do I try to understand him ...


3 Comments, 293 Views, 14 Votes ,5.54 Score
jayjay4123 79 M
14  Articles
What Makes a Relationship - Part 2   7/17/2007

I recall reading about an electronics supplier to the Big 3 automakers talking about his success and longevity in the business. He described the environment as one where the big automakers put out specifications of what they wanted in a particular component product or service, and suppliers were supposed to bid on the contract. Typically the lowest bidder who is perceived to meet the ...


1 Comments, 76 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
jayjay4123 79 M
14  Articles
What makes a relationship?   7/16/2007

It is not news to anyone that we tend to like people who listen to us. We are drawn to those who seem to pay attention to us, who listen closely to what we say and even over time seem to listen to those things unspoken - things we convey with body language and subtle gestures. Scientific study has shown that even the amount of pupil dilation subconsciously conveys to us how interested someone is ...


2 Comments, 109 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
winkme4now2 46 M
7  Articles
hi   3/9/2007

need some sugestion on where 2 meet people 2 start a relationship


4 Comments, 155 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
OneG8TLay 66 M
2  Articles
Communication is Everything When It Comes to Us!   1/28/2007

This is a topic I feel very comfortable in discussing. After 14 years together we can say that we have built a relationship that stands up to the tests of not only time but of the harshness of our internal society. We are, of course, the most difficult group of people to contend with. No different that other groups but as Same Sex Partners go our lifestyle has its ...


3 Comments, 127 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
immortal25 43 M
1  Article
The Afluenza Virus   1/25/2007

Building a relationship, is what being on planet Earth is all about. Everything that we do in our 24/7 cycles is about relating with our surroundings. I find it so interesting to see that we especially as gay men put so much energy outside of ourselves to find a relationship. Most don't even know what that means or how to attract one, sustain one or be joyful and blissed out in one. All ...


3 Comments, 101 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
hairybearaddict 66 M
1  Article
finding a true relationship in the gay world   1/25/2007

First of all before you get into a relationship, you must prepare yourself to know that is what you are truly ready to commit yoourself to, and that you have totally accepted the fact that you are gay or bisexual and are comfortable with yourself being bornthat way. Also strong enough to handle all the negative responses from the straight world and ignorant people out there. Then you have ...


4 Comments, 650 Views, 49 Votes ,6.98 Score
darwin_0207 32 M
3  Articles
just find out!   1/20/2007

WAYS TO KEEP RELATIONSHIP WORKING:
1.LOVE ECAH OTHER 2.DONT LIE 3.KEEP COMMUNICATION OPEN 4.STAY SWEET 5.WHEN YOU GOT HURT, JUST FORGIVE AND FORGET 6.NEVER TALK ABOUT BREAKUP'S 7.FORGET ABOUT "PRIDE" 8.NEVER SAY ITS "OK" EVEN IF IT'S NOT 9.IF YOU SAY SORRY MEAN IT!! 10.DONT COMPARE YOUR PAST TO YOUR PRESENT 11.DONT TALK ABOUT YOUR STUPID'S "EX BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND. ...


3 Comments, 88 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
workingstiff 64 M
1  Article
A Years Worth of Sex Play Ideas   1/9/2007

A sexually experienced and intelligent friend made the following observation: "Just think of sex as how adults play." As adults, much of our daily activity serves some serious, or at least useful, purpose: work, sleep, eating, exercising, "bettering ourselves, " etc. Sex play, with ourselves or with a partner, has the potential to be for us now what the sandbox or the tree house or the ...


2 Comments, 188 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
atakkeba 87 GC
3  Articles
Meeting after persuation   1/1/2007

One person bcame a friend through one of these sites. We got into mails exchange mode. There would be atleast one mail a day from each side. We were far apart, 350kms. Both were eager to meet. Ultimately it came to this end that each one is not reliable. Now I promised that we will certainly meet before the end of 2006. I confirmed the visit with conviction that I will travel half the ...


0 Comments, 190 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
bdhot2k 46 M
3  Articles
Making me a Cock-Hungry Bi (atleast thats whatt I think)   11/5/2006

It was about 20 yrs back when I got to taste my first big juicy penis. I was 12 at that time and was high on masturbation.
I still remember that day perfectly, and hope to cherish that day till I day. So this is how I became a bi-sexual ~ cock-hungry ~ male- (well what else to call myself than that, actually um proud today to be one)
First let me introduce the person ...


0 Comments, 618 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
oralee2 76 M
2  Articles
Wishful thinking   10/4/2006

Recently, I was driving along a back country road when I happened across a tall, slim and rather handsome dude, a few years younger than I. he was holding his thumb out, obviously looking for a ride. I couldn't help but notice his handsome looks, his skin tight jeans, and that dark little goatee that encompassed his chin and facial area. At first I was simply going to drive on by, but ...


1 Comments, 324 Views, 18 Votes ,5.44 Score
charmedone29 40 M
1  Article
What about Love?   9/14/2006

Some one once told me that real love is: when you can't stop thinking of some one, when everything you do reminds you of them, when all day all you want to do is talk to them or be with them. I am there. Been there for some time. But what happens when the other person doesn't feel that way (or doesn't say it if he does)? How do you deal with that. In the past I have ...


3 Comments, 142 Views, 8 Votes ,6.03 Score
Sirarena2 59 M
3  Articles
Church and State Americans United?   9/4/2006

Church and State Americans United? By Bobby

Is the church influence on homosexuality in America totally destroying our freedom? There was a time when being in a gay relationship was as common as the cold. Now we have to rely on the comercial media's advertising just to hook up like we used to do in any and every rest room in America. Was the Aids epedemic the answer to ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Wishmaster_rick 36 M
1  Article
My first Real Relationship.   8/20/2006

This is all true, this happened a few months ago...

i had meet this guy, he was my age. and when we first sew each other, it was Lust!!
i bumped into him one day while up town, we started talking about stuff..
he gave me his number, and i gave him mine. Then we started txting each other, all of the time.
at first it was nice clean texts, ...


0 Comments, 365 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
ja2dee 47 M
2  Articles
where have all the good men gone   8/20/2006

It seems like it is almost impossible to find a kind and honest person anymore. Why is that? Does anyone know or have any ideas? I have a few theories here they are: 1)People have are only in it for self interests and self satifaction 2)No one wants any committments / responsiblities 3)They live there lives with spontainious actions vs plans 4)Really have very little if any concern ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
hotsexychiguy 41 M
1  Article
new BF   7/9/2006

How can you tell if the person you are dating is really into? My boyfriend tells me he likes me but there are some things that he does that makes me feel differently. Sometimes he doesn't call me when he tells me he will.


2 Comments, 217 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score