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advent43 67 M
11  questions
Bath houses still exist??? - 9/23/2019

I was recently chatting with a guy on here who like me can not host. So I suggested we meet for coffee regardless and that if we were compatible we could figure something out. I even suggested the local ABS, but to my surprise he indicated a male bath house not far from where he lives. I was surprised because I thought that in the wake of STD awareness, they'd pretty much all closed down. ...

14 response(s), 9 votes
advent43 67 M
11  questions
Getting more gay by the day... - 9/23/2019

I've been bisexual for 40 years or so. I've loved and enjoyed sexual relations with women, but more and more I find sex with women to be less enjoyable. On the other hand sex with men was nearly always satisfying, but intimacy with a guy was not for me. <br><br> Lately however I feel more turned on by the thought of male male intimacy, deep kissing feeling and holding with a ...

16 response(s), 12 votes
DaButt69 48 M
2  questions
Group Sex - 9/21/2019

Has anyone had groupsex? If so, how was it?

15 response(s), 8 votes
BuckeyeBtm 70 M
4  questions
Bottom Question - 8/29/2019

Would like to ask the bottoms out there what they use to clean themselves out? Store bought? Water? Someone recently told me that they use a mild soapy solution. I had been told that this is not good for your system. Any feedback on this?

20 response(s), 14 votes
LatinOtter85 38 M
1  question
Are you out? - 8/22/2019

The more I search this site, the more I'm finding profiles of men who are either bi-curious or cannot host. Which, really, just makes me wonder if those men are in relationships and on here secretively. There also seems to be a large list of men who cannot host. Which seems to be another red flag. <br><br> So, my question... Are you ? Or just curious and hoping nobody finds ?

1 response(s), 1 vote
lavielascif 53 T
3  questions
Before i going... - 8/7/2019

sleep i masturbate of many way and ejaculate. What you mean, it's good or bad?...

6 response(s), 3 votes
jjfsrvt77 57 M
2  questions
Getting Laid - 6/2/2019

If you go out and Hook up, Meet someone.... Have Sex, that means you got Laid. IF, You "Fuck" yourself with a Dildo.... Does that count as well? Abstract Thinking

26 response(s), 15 votes
lovestick6969 51 M
14  questions
Swish and swirl? Or swallow? - 5/19/2019

Ok guys most of us love a creamy hot load in our mouths. But when that guy rewards you by squirting his creamy white love juice in your mouth, do you prefer to swallow straight away? Or do you let it sit in your mouth, tongue.. maybe swirl it around your mouth a little.. <br><br> Me, I like to change it up. Sometimes I love sucking a thick hot load straight down the back of my throat ...

28 response(s), 26 votes
Johnjr388 52 M
1  question
how do you keep it there? - 5/11/2019

Hello, i have been wearing women panties and thongs for year and cannot wear boxers anymore love the feeling of a thong or silk panties. been doing some cross dressing in the house for a while so far have not gone out. I was trying to get enough nerve to try it this year but i have one problem. How or where should i put my dick?? might just have to duck tape it to my ass. can anyone be any ...

8 response(s), 6 votes
backdooropen1669 68 M
3  questions
what do you have to do? - 5/3/2019

How on earth does one find a group? So wish to be video'd live servicing a group yet no takers. Seriously what does one need to do? Let me know so want this.

2 response(s), 3 votes
backdooropen1669 68 M
3  questions
public sex - 4/25/2019

Would love to be tied to a guardrail and have a group of men use all my holes all night long while being blindfolded and filmed and placed on the internet. Anyone else's have such desires? Anyone capable of getting this my top fantasy fulfilled for me? Obviously let me lose my blindfold midway through I want all to see me used/

3 response(s), 10 votes
backdooropen1669 68 M
3  questions
who likes to be tied and dominated - 4/25/2019

I wish too be tied and dominated by a group. Who's into group anyone like filming it as well?

5 response(s), 2 votes
lovestick6969 51 M
14  questions
Have you used Poppers? - 4/13/2019

Have you tried poppers to have sex? I haven't actually had sex on them, but I recently bought a bottle and when I had some alone time I got naked.. put on some porn with headphones and opened the bottle.. and OMG what a rush!!! I knew they where supposed to make you feel some things as I read up about them beforehand. Yes my face went quite warm, my heart raced a little.. but the thing I ...

12 response(s), 15 votes
Slurping67 52 M
1  question
oshkosh - 4/11/2019

hello all <br><br> I will be in Oshkosh may 3rd and was looking for place to go? bookstores with arcade or adult theater? <br><br> thanks

1 response(s), 2 votes
Ukbottom69 52 M
1  question
Best way to arrange a 3some? - 3/21/2019

Hi All, <br><br> Trying out this forum. Definitely easier meet people and test the water but for some time now, I've been very much fantasizing about a 3or 4some with Tops . I feel hungry and horny for 3some fun and would be keen to hear people's honest views how that's done! <br><br> I guess the easiest is to ask.. but often in 1:1 chats, I would get asked .. ...

9 response(s), 8 votes
Sissypriscilla20 68 M
1  question
Lonely Sissy wants a gangbang - 2/20/2019

Where are all the older men who wants a in Mass?...

3 response(s), 6 votes
booth65 67 M
1  question
oral vs. anal - 2/18/2019

I enjoy Doing oral, however, every now and then, so seem to enjoy it.seemeone wants to fuck me. I don't like it and usually say, no! It usually hurts and I don't enjoy it. When I look at porn the guys seem to enjoy it. What am I doing wrong?

19 response(s), 11 votes
oralbottom553 67 M
1  question
Question for bottoms - 2/15/2019

Why do you perfer being the bottom in bed?

25 response(s), 14 votes
sub_bottom2exp 53 M
1  question
Safe sex? - 2/14/2019

The only true form of safe sex is well abstaining from sex with other's all together it's the loneliest form of sex but it gets you off when needed.... <br><br> I spent most of my life straight sex raw with women in relationships it wasn't an issue really? then a cpl introduced me to bi play and safe sex anal wise was the norm on both the giving and receiving end.... All ...

9 response(s), 9 votes
Indybicplthirsty 47 BC
2  questions
Looking to suck an btm Fletcher - 2/3/2019

New here and wanting to serve as a friendly slut I want to suck you off asap. Ready now any one in Indy looking for a Nutt to bust or wanting to fuck me or rim an suck me..

0 response(s), 5 votes
Indybicplthirsty 47 BC
2  questions
Looking to suck an btm Fletcher - 2/3/2019

New here and wanting to serve as a friendly slut I want to suck you off asap. Ready now any one in Indy looking for a Nutt to bust or wanting to fuck me or rim an suck me..

0 response(s), 0 votes
foryou00 40 T
1  question
Where I find the answer - 1/16/2019

I am a man just love sex and group

3 response(s), 12 votes
advent43 67 M
11  questions
What's wrong with this picture??? - 1/12/2019

When ever I contact a guy I'm interested in I include my recent "G" photo, a short note of interest and dare I say...my actual first name! Yet despite the fact that I get flirts, hotlists and have standard contacts, it's rare that a guy emails me with something more that "hey" or "what's up" or "I'd like to sit on that". Even the few ...

14 response(s), 17 votes
ansandiego619 58 M
1  question
How do you meet mature men? - 11/28/2018

I'm in a great city that's brimming with great-looking, young, fit men, but how do you meet a man in his 50s these days?

5 response(s), 15 votes
davidff 59 M
1  question
paid sex - 11/13/2018

Where can I look for good sex to pay for? I know what you all think but sometimes you need that commodity david

7 response(s), 12 votes
ghostgirlv333 64 T
18  questions
why dont you blog - 10/23/2018

not so much a question but a suggestion iif folks on here are interested in you then you call can connect thru your blogs just sayin

7 response(s), 16 votes
bottomman1619 62 M
1  question
love being tied - 10/21/2018

Love being tied anybody like taking a nice tied up piece of meat?

10 response(s), 11 votes
Pyldrvr82 67 M
1  question
SMART ASS - 10/6/2018

You know when people are out here and trying to get the information that they deserve or desire. I believe that there are some really mean spirited people that need to check that bullshit attitude towards others. I've been enjoying myself quite a bit on the site. I've never been on this site and am doing this for the first time. I'm hoping that the majority of the members of the site ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
lovestick6969 51 M
14  questions
Is this site broken?? - 9/20/2018

I'm wanting cock attention! But this site offers NONE! <br><br> <br><br> So glad I haven't renewed membership in ages.

16 response(s), 14 votes
Asseater5556 49 M
1  question
How to deep throat huge cocks with out gagging - 8/26/2018

And I need to learn to love cum!!!

19 response(s), 17 votes