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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Outpersonals.com The largest Gay singles Network!.
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smoothtime_ahead 55 M
3  questions
Never touched you - 6/29/2013

What really can get you in a bad mood about something that never touches you physically???

As for me (At the wrong time )it can be a lie told about me. Or naturally waking up on the wrong side of the bed can turn into a crummy day.

Life deals me another chance everyday to have a 50/50% chance either for a Good or Bad one. Yesterday reminds of that; You never know what tommorow ...

4 response(s), 2 votes
sparky696969 63 M
81  questions
W A R N I N G ! - 6/26/2013

If you use adam4adam or manhunt, >>>watch out for heyya21 he says he is 18, i found out by accident when I saw him i asked for his drivers license, it was then he told me he did not have one, he said he is only 15 ! Needless to say, I left

4 response(s), 8 votes
Handyman881815 60 M
4  questions
how to take more - 6/23/2013

when I bottom with a guy with more than 6" it hurts the bottom of my stomach, when I on my back.Was with a guy the other day with 7" and it was hurting a little, doggy style, I just had to grin and take because I wasn't going to spoil his fun. Don't bottom much, but how do guys take big cocks?

6 response(s), 8 votes
smoothtime_ahead 55 M
3  questions
What draws your attention - 6/23/2013

So tell me what normally draws you in & gives you the interest to being partners? Is it basically only the personality/character that will give you the best joy apart from what we men get the feel for?

6 response(s), 6 votes
jbl99 48 M
1  question
making the right move - 6/20/2013

After shaking off the denial, I know that I can only be satisfied by men. But, I am still deep in the closet.

That being said, I'm allowing myself to acknowledge when I'm in the presence of an attractive man. Yesterday, I was buying groceries and saw a guy that made me buzz with excitement. He was a store employee who worked in the meat department (not making this up). The name on his ...

6 response(s), 4 votes
donaldh 74 M
6  questions
How Do I? - 6/18/2013

I recently posted on here that I had found my true being, and that I had given my first BJ. I have been with my boyfriend a few times now and have a problem. How do I overcome the gag reflex?

5 response(s), 6 votes
joel4995 75 M
1  question
Anal Douche - 6/16/2013

Is there a limit on how many times you should douche in a day? Should I use anything other than warm water?

2 response(s), 7 votes
upbiseven 78 M
1  question
browse button "gay couple" - 6/15/2013

it seems Outpersonals is the only site with this problem. when i click browse and then "couples (2 men)seeking men" i find all the entries are of single guys looking for partners. apparently, members don't understand this catagory. anyone notice this and have an idea how to correct it? contact OP directly? (mm, maybe i just answered my own question)

3 response(s), 4 votes
donaldh 74 M
6  questions
I need advice ll - 6/8/2013

I want to thank everyone for their great comments! I just gave my first BJ and was hard as a rock during the entire time. Was never so excited in my whole life. I now realize that I am GAY and love the feeling.

4 response(s), 11 votes
FitProfess74 45 M
1  question
Closet Gay? - 6/3/2013

I'm straight-acting, typically attracted to women type of guy, but have fantasized all my life about sucking cock. I can't shake it and it's the one thing that always turns me on. Am I gay or bi, and how would you recommend I go about making fantasy a reality and knowing for sure?

8 response(s), 12 votes
donaldh 74 M
6  questions
I need advise - 5/30/2013

When I started having sex with women I would lose my erection and would not cum. Then one time it happened and I started wondered what it would be like to be with a man, and my erection returned and I was able to finish. This became a pattern with me; as I've gotten older I think less about sex with a woman and more about being with a man. My question is: am I gay or Bisexual? At this point I am ...

6 response(s), 6 votes
sexstraved2 67 M
13  questions
cuddle n kisses - 5/19/2013

Why are so many guys afraid to cuddle n kiss, but are willing to give head n rim but but won't kiss , I just don't understand why ,

10 response(s), 12 votes
sexstraved2 67 M
13  questions
older prt.2 - 5/18/2013

Older males as in 50's-70's are so much better partners. Especially uncut , something so sexy about this group of men. They know what they want.know how to use it.and just seem to be better at it. Only problem I found is great bodies terrific looking cocks, but so many are bottoms. So sad, just keep searching.

7 response(s), 11 votes
sparky696969 63 M
81  questions
frenulum removed - 5/17/2013

Anyone on here have their frenulum tied to remove it ? Did you do it yourself or did a doctor tie it ? Was there any pain ? How long did pain last ? an blood ? mine is to short and needs to go later

3 response(s), 2 votes
sexstraved2 67 M
13  questions
older - 5/3/2013

Where are all the horny older men? The ones that are looking for more a quick fix. The men that like to hang out naked , snuggle, make out, lick n suck, bury the bone , heavy cummers. Uncut looking for regular get togethers with who loves lots of sex.

10 response(s), 14 votes
scotty36134 72 M
1  question
Search feature? - 4/25/2013

I have a member's name. What happened to the search engine to view His Profile?

1 response(s), 2 votes
kinkyniteowl 44 M
1  question
HOOK UPS - 4/4/2013

Is this site for real?? Does or has anyone hooked up on this site??

6 response(s), 6 votes
towelrack2004 56 M
2  questions
3some questions - 4/3/2013

I have been in few over the years with other men. I seem to be in the middle of a couple most of the time. Other times its 3 strangers. But when I was in a straight 3 some, me, a woman and another man all I wanted to do was show her ho to suck his cock right. I never got the chance as there was no m2m contact. If this happened again, any suggestions on how to talk about it? I am bi, but the guy ...

2 response(s), 5 votes
sexstraved2 67 M
13  questions
why - 3/30/2013

Why is it so hard to find someone that we're interested in . You state you're interest , age, cut or uncut , size etc. And the replies are from people not even in your range. Don't people read ? Is it so hard to find people who want good times , hot horny fun, good.old ffashion sex.

2 response(s), 4 votes
dpout 41 M
2  questions
Can you accept? - 3/12/2013

Recently one of my friend who is older than me (probably 10+), he wants me to be his bf? can you accept a man older than you? ...

5 response(s), 9 votes
dpout 41 M
2  questions
Could you give me some advice about can you accept a woman that older than you probably 5+ to be you - 3/12/2013

Could you give me some advice about can you accept a man that older than you probably 10+ to be your bf?























































2 response(s), 6 votes
sensayuma148 79 M
1  question
Why can't I post? - 3/6/2013

Are standard members forbidden to post? I've tried several times and when I press "post, " I scroll down to where I entered and my post is not there. I subscribed under a username, forgot what it was, and resuscribed under an new handle, but there shouldn't be any connection between the two as I'm using different email addresses. What gives?

2 response(s), 5 votes
highstreet69 48 M
2  questions
wanting to kiss and touch in public - 2/5/2013

i cant stop thinking about meeting a stranger in a public place and being pulled off to the side somewhere and kissing and touching each other in a public place. I get soo hard and horny and its all i can think about. will you help me make my dream come true ?? xoxox

im in Chattanooga. but will travel to close places for the right fun xoxo

2 response(s), 12 votes
jesse6977 65 M
6  questions
Watching partner - 1/27/2013

Do you enjoy watching your partner or best sex buddy having sex with another guy??

5 response(s), 10 votes
ggleny 67 M
1  question
Do many married men fantasize about taking cock > - 1/21/2013

When discussing sex many married men do secretly admit that they think about men' cock. many of them are too afraid to admit it but they do look at porn and wish they were in the receiving end/

12 response(s), 11 votes
marvitto1 51 M
4  questions
Discretion - 1/15/2013

I am in the closet but do meet from time to time, some guys who look like they want to be friends. I am open to meeting new friends but how do I know if a guy has more on his mind?

5 response(s), 10 votes
luvwetdk 39 M
7  questions
Bathroom Stalls - 1/6/2013

I'm just curious on how many people actually call the numbers that are written on the Restroom Stalls? I have always seen them, but wondered if they may just be a prank from some putting their friends number up. Then again what if its the real deal but its a random janitor.

5 response(s), 10 votes
jesse6977 65 M
6  questions
coming out - 1/6/2013

For years I have considered myself bi sexual. ALways have a girlfriend but have sex with men often and of course in secret. I always enjoyed sex with men much more than woman. I now have decided that I am in fact gay. I really dont enjoy sex with woman just went thru the motions. So I decided to come out as they say. What is the best way to proceed. Do I just tell all my friends and family ...

3 response(s), 12 votes
jesse6977 65 M
6  questions
doctors - 12/27/2012

If you are not out, do you confide in your doctor or urologist that you have sex with men. I recently had my doctor check me for hemoroids and I think he was about to ask me if I have anal sex but he hesitated. I guess I should have told him but my girlfriend also goes to him.

3 response(s), 13 votes
iDomTop 56 M
1  question
Dumb question about the videos - 12/23/2012

Hello,

I'm just wondering if there are any gay videos in your "watch adult movies" section. I see a few bi, andn there's enough cock in the fetish and gangbang sections for some fun, but do you have any videos there like the ones you review? Thanks much.

iDomTop

0 response(s), 4 votes