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sparky696969 63 M
81  questions
frenulum removed - 5/18/2013

Anyone on here have their frenulum tied to remove it ? Did you do it yourself or did a doctor tie it ? Was there any pain ? How long did pain last ? an blood ? mine is to short and needs to go later

3 response(s), 2 votes
towelrack2004 56 M
2  questions
3some questions - 5/15/2013

I have been in few over the years with other men. I seem to be in the middle of a couple most of the time. Other times its 3 strangers. But when I was in a straight 3 some, me, a woman and another man all I wanted to do was show her ho to suck his cock right. I never got the chance as there was no m2m contact. If this happened again, any suggestions on how to talk about it? I am bi, but the guy ...

2 response(s), 5 votes
scotty36134 72 M
1  question
Search feature? - 5/15/2013

I have a member's name. What happened to the search engine to view His Profile?

1 response(s), 2 votes
dpout 41 M
2  questions
Can you accept? - 5/14/2013

Recently one of my friend who is older than me (probably 10+), he wants me to be his bf? can you accept a man older than you? ...

5 response(s), 9 votes
sexstraved2 67 M
13  questions
why - 5/7/2013

Why is it so hard to find someone that we're interested in . You state you're interest , age, cut or uncut , size etc. And the replies are from people not even in your range. Don't people read ? Is it so hard to find people who want good times , hot horny fun, good.old ffashion sex.

2 response(s), 4 votes
georgiadude2000 40 M
1  question
Mole on my right ass cheek. - 4/11/2013

I was just wondering what you guys thunk of the mole on my ass. Do you think I should leave it or have it removed. My doctor said it is no danger. Would it make you enjoy fucking my ass more.Thanks for your replys.

12 response(s), 9 votes
dpout 41 M
2  questions
Could you give me some advice about can you accept a woman that older than you probably 5+ to be you - 4/3/2013

Could you give me some advice about can you accept a man that older than you probably 10+ to be your bf?























































2 response(s), 6 votes
bluestar97 71 M
2  questions
Spray cum on my face, Will you? - 3/21/2013

Hello, I find it very erotic to have a man spray his cum in my mouth and all over my face..What do you think?

8 response(s), 17 votes
bitoyman69 65 M
3  questions
Double Penitration - 3/17/2013

HAs anyone ever been "DP" ANd if so can you tell if it is worth trying And if so could youhelp out

17 response(s), 16 votes
sensayuma148 79 M
1  question
Why can't I post? - 3/7/2013

Are standard members forbidden to post? I've tried several times and when I press "post, " I scroll down to where I entered and my post is not there. I subscribed under a username, forgot what it was, and resuscribed under an new handle, but there shouldn't be any connection between the two as I'm using different email addresses. What gives?

2 response(s), 5 votes
austvguy 45 M
1  question
smooth balls - 3/7/2013

Just wondering in regards to those who like the feeling of hairless cock and balls..... what is the best way in keeping them nice and smooth??

Have shaved and get the irritated feeling..... removal cream just leaves balls stinging a little for the next day....

Maybe just need to keep up the regular shaving??

Any tips would be much appreciated!

13 response(s), 25 votes
pretty_sam18 32 T
7  questions
do its really feel hell when you get fucked for the 1st time? - 3/4/2013

I am pretty_sam, i usually do make a sex to my ex-bf before, not oftenly but i enjoy to have a sexk so much, more excitement and its really satisfied my desires! One of my ex-bf do pleased to fuck me on my anus but i was feel worried and fear to get hurt so much, he says that he do only fuck me gentlly, slowly and w/caress, at first, i have some regrets but since i love my ex-bf, then i do ...

7 response(s), 23 votes
jesse6977 65 M
6  questions
Watching partner - 2/24/2013

Do you enjoy watching your partner or best sex buddy having sex with another guy??

5 response(s), 10 votes
luvwetdk 39 M
7  questions
Anal aphrodisiac? - 2/23/2013

I was wondering, Is there such a thing as an anal aphrodisiac? Meaning is there any food that you can eat that will make you want anal sex? Or is there anything you can rub on yourself that will give you the hots?

7 response(s), 18 votes
ggleny 67 M
1  question
Do many married men fantasize about taking cock > - 2/19/2013

When discussing sex many married men do secretly admit that they think about men' cock. many of them are too afraid to admit it but they do look at porn and wish they were in the receiving end/

12 response(s), 11 votes
sucknswallOOOO 70 M
1  question
What was your age when you sucked your first cock - 2/18/2013

What was your age and who were you with when you sucked your first cock?

25 response(s), 23 votes
highstreet69 48 M
2  questions
wanting to kiss and touch in public - 2/17/2013

i cant stop thinking about meeting a stranger in a public place and being pulled off to the side somewhere and kissing and touching each other in a public place. I get soo hard and horny and its all i can think about. will you help me make my dream come true ?? xoxox

im in Chattanooga. but will travel to close places for the right fun xoxo

2 response(s), 12 votes
lonnie2005 72 M
1  question
BENEFITS - 2/7/2013

I GUESS I AM NEEDING A ANSWER TO WITH BENEFITS?? WHAT DOES THIS MEAN. LONNIE

5 response(s), 8 votes
lukelove2godown 41 M
4  questions
quiting problem - 1/29/2013

I have been a smoker for about 12 yrs now and I am slowly quiting over the past month, I started off with tue and thursdays are smoke free and now im trying tue and wed. I've noticed that when I masturbait that I don't feel my orgasms as much as I do on the days that I smoke. Im not sure if that is part of a condioned responce as I has been smoking and stroking for years or if its part of the ...

5 response(s), 12 votes
jesse6977 65 M
6  questions
doctors - 1/26/2013

If you are not out, do you confide in your doctor or urologist that you have sex with men. I recently had my doctor check me for hemoroids and I think he was about to ask me if I have anal sex but he hesitated. I guess I should have told him but my girlfriend also goes to him.

3 response(s), 13 votes
luvwetdk 39 M
7  questions
Bathroom Stalls - 1/26/2013

I'm just curious on how many people actually call the numbers that are written on the Restroom Stalls? I have always seen them, but wondered if they may just be a prank from some putting their friends number up. Then again what if its the real deal but its a random janitor.

5 response(s), 10 votes
marvitto1 51 M
4  questions
Discretion - 1/25/2013

I am in the closet but do meet from time to time, some guys who look like they want to be friends. I am open to meeting new friends but how do I know if a guy has more on his mind?

5 response(s), 10 votes
jesse6977 65 M
6  questions
To suck or be sucked? That is the question. - 1/21/2013

I see that on most cruising sites there are more men who want to suck cock then there are men who want to be sucked. I also see that at the local glory hole that I frequent there are many more men who want to give blow jobs than get them. Its almost a competition to get a cock to suck and most younger men prefer to get sucked by a younger man. I'm older and experienced and can give a great ...

16 response(s), 12 votes
fred835 61 M
2  questions
putting comments with photos - 1/21/2013

How do we add a comment to our photos, I tried updating my photo and clicked on add comment and then put in my comment and then hit update , but my comments never show up, what am i doing wrong

4 response(s), 6 votes
f112358 37 M
1  question
Is there any body else out there like me??? - 1/17/2013

Well, as I sit here and ponder how to start this, I guess I will start at the beginning.
A long time ago, I was sexually molested by a man, who made me do things to him when I was just a small . I told my parents about 10 years later, but they never really did any thing about it. For years I kept this secret from all other family members and friends, until a couple of years ago ...

9 response(s), 12 votes
tomhole 58 M
1  question
anal sex - 1/12/2013

I prefer unsafe anal with guys

6 response(s), 19 votes
JoeBob39 37 M
1  question
Sex Toys - 1/9/2013

I've been really wanting to try out some sex toys, either for just myself or with somebody else... does anybody have any suggestions? What's you're favorite toy?

13 response(s), 11 votes
jesse6977 65 M
6  questions
coming out - 1/9/2013

For years I have considered myself bi sexual. ALways have a girlfriend but have sex with men often and of course in secret. I always enjoyed sex with men much more than woman. I now have decided that I am in fact gay. I really dont enjoy sex with woman just went thru the motions. So I decided to come out as they say. What is the best way to proceed. Do I just tell all my friends and family ...

3 response(s), 12 votes
gify26 42 M
1  question
NEEDS HELP.... - 1/3/2013

How do you tell someone you hangout with that you want to FUCK him the way you like it. The thing is the person knows that u r Gay but never approached or spoke about it before but u know that they have though about making love to you passionately please help.

5 response(s), 6 votes
scooby67 55 M
8  questions
when will I see the light? - 12/31/2012

Guys, it has been a year to the day that I had filed for divorce! It is so bittersweet I am just in a perpleced state of mind! How long does it take to get on with life? I have met some really cool guys on here...I love chatting and the letters, but I want so much more...I feel like i am in such a stagnant state. Some days are really great but then there are a couple that just make me really ...

9 response(s), 18 votes