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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Outpersonals.com The largest Gay singles Network!.
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jesse6977 65 M
6  questions
To suck or be sucked? That is the question. - 12/20/2012

I see that on most cruising sites there are more men who want to suck cock then there are men who want to be sucked. I also see that at the local glory hole that I frequent there are many more men who want to give blow jobs than get them. Its almost a competition to get a cock to suck and most younger men prefer to get sucked by a younger man. I'm older and experienced and can give a great ...

16 response(s), 12 votes
highstreet69 48 M
2  questions
wanting to fulfill a fantasy - 11/8/2012

i cant stop thinking about meeting a stranger in a public place and being pulled off to the side somewhere and kissing and touching each other in a public place. I get soo hard and horny and its all i can think about. will you help me make my dream come true ?? xoxox

4 response(s), 12 votes
discreetman53 71 M
5  questions
Saturday night? - 11/3/2012

Tell me, What do you do on Saturday night? Is there a regular thing you do? I sometimes go to Barnes and Noble, as example. Do you extend yourself when you go out on Saturday night? Meet new people, especially of the gay kind? In my area I haven't figured out where I can meet men like myself. Maybe we can pattern some regular place thats cool for old fucks, like me, that want to gather. Not ...

4 response(s), 7 votes
hornyboy88 30 M
1  question
Would you fuck me? - 10/17/2012

HIT ME UP

11 response(s), 26 votes
horney_in_pv 61 M
1  question
my profile was cut off--why? - 10/17/2012

I can't find out how to contact OP to find out why they cut off my profile. They've given me the standard formula about being too short, Offensive(?) addresses or HTML etc. but I don't have any of that in my profile. I've even put P____ for penis and C___ for cock, Can anybody give me a way to reach them and ask "what gives"? Opps with the "P and C" words this will probably get cut off also.

0 response(s), 5 votes
bottom4top442 73 M
1  question
Where am I going wrong? - 10/7/2012

Look at my profile. Since I joined this site I have received 1 email and nothing else. I joined to meet people. What's wrong that chases people away. bottom4top442

6 response(s), 5 votes
notdoneyet61 67 M
1  question
Douche - 10/2/2012

Can any of you tell me what you use to get ready for anal? I have like a hot water bottle with a tube on it but have no idea what to put in it to clean out. Anybody want to help me out?

7 response(s), 9 votes
deer181818 61 M
1  question
not looking for love - 9/28/2012

Why is it so hard finding somebody that would like to just fuck me, I would really like to once or twice a week to be ass fucked

2 response(s), 6 votes
ineedtraining 63 M
1  question
Gentle Training or Just Forced? - 9/27/2012

What would be the best way for a bicurious guy to learn how to suck a guys cock? Being taught gently and slowly, or just being forced to suck? I think I might like to be forced but I really don't know which way would work for me.

7 response(s), 9 votes
raygun7139 79 M
2  questions
Giving good head - 9/20/2012

I would love to add to my repertoire of oral sex techniques. So far I have just done to others what I like having done to me, but I have what seem to be unusual tastes in what I like in receiving a blow job, so it’s very likely that most of the men for whom I have provided oral sex either enjoy things I’m not doing, don’t enjoy some of the things I am doing, or maybe some of both. I have ...

5 response(s), 11 votes
raygun7139 79 M
2  questions
online members - 9/10/2012

I have been on this site back and forth for probably three or four years, and normally, when I click on the "who's online" link, especially in the early evening to the late night, I get several pages of online members. I have just recently rejoined the site, and, when I clicked on the "online" link just a moment ago, there was less than a page-and-a-half of people online. And for the past few ...

8 response(s), 6 votes
hathhost 71 M
4  questions
Deleting email messages - 9/1/2012

During the last couple of days I have tried to delete email messages in outpersonals.com. I have been unable to do so and have got the message "error on page" at the lower left hand corner.

3 response(s), 5 votes
BILLYJACK069 65 M
1  question
My fist time - 8/18/2012

Im new at this. I have never had a guy, but when I talk on here I really want one. I have talk on here to a few guys, but it seems like when the time comes to meet somplace for coffee, orsomthing, thay always say that somthing cam up. It makes me think, will I ever get layed for the first time

8 response(s), 12 votes
smoothshavin2 51 M
2  questions
My boyfreind fucks me to hard - 8/10/2012

Hello, I'm 44 and the bf is 27.His cock is 8 inches. I'm all bottom and i love his cock in me. The problem is that he cums over and over and starts to fuck me to the point of me not being comfortable. If i ask him to stop it pisses him off and i don't c him for a while. Ive tried talking to him and other things. Nothing seems to work. Should I just let him and his freinds fuck me? Ya ive been ...

10 response(s), 12 votes
bidonald2 68 M
2  questions
Gay, but not out - 7/31/2012

When I was young, and newly married, I found that the only way I could cum was to pretend that I was fucking a man's ass. I though this was the fault of my wife, however, as I matured and found other women I had the same problem. I finally had a relationship with a man and found it to be absolutly wonderful, I knew then I was gay. My lover finally decided to come out, and it destroyed his life. ...

1 response(s), 18 votes
sweetbillstoy 38 M
1  question
i beleive im thekinkiest nastiest sickest little cocksucker here - 7/24/2012

i invented a but plug with a doggie tail inserted in the bearer has a doggie tail i invented a srap on dick with a swell ball on the pube end which swells causing the two to be hung up and last but not least a mouth peice wich inserts into the mouth keeping it wide open on the outside a toilet seat mking you a human urinal fireaway challengers

4 response(s), 18 votes
jesse6977 65 M
6  questions
Whe did you realize - 7/13/2012

How old were you when you first realized you were attracted to men and how old when you had your first sexual encounter with a man.

13 response(s), 20 votes
jesse6977 65 M
6  questions
ED meds - 7/12/2012

Have any of you taken ED medications such as Viagra or Levitra and if so what has your experience been ? I have been thinking about trying it but have heard some stories about bad side effects.

1 response(s), 7 votes
justforhotsex2 64 M
1  question
Straight or not? - 6/27/2012

I have a friend who claims to be straight but I just wonder? Let me try and sum it up briefly. We have know each other for a few years and I also knew his former girlfriend. He had ownered a bar near by my home and I use to visit there. One night they got drunk and he and another male friend and his wife and myself played strip poker well I hoped he would loose he did my dream came true I got to ...

4 response(s), 19 votes
luvwetdk 39 M
7  questions
Anal aphrodisiac? - 6/10/2012

I was wondering, Is there such a thing as an anal aphrodisiac? Meaning is there any food that you can eat that will make you want anal sex? Or is there anything you can rub on yourself that will give you the hots?

7 response(s), 18 votes
gunner54h 73 M
5  questions
New look - 5/30/2012

What is your opinion on the new look OutP has. I'm not sure yet, I think they are trying way too much in so short of a page.

12 response(s), 17 votes
oralvirgin4cock 56 M
2  questions
Boys Town - 5/29/2012

Would love to venture over to Boy's Town in Chicago and have some fun....any suggestions for older guys?

1 response(s), 13 votes
backagain80 47 M
3  questions
shave or wax or? - 5/27/2012

so i love to be smooth. I have been shaving my cock and balls and ass and everything in between. I love the way it feels when i am freshly shaven. but I think it maybe time to wax. I want to know what you all think. Wax vers shave. Or if there are other ideas that would be good too. nothing feels better to me then when i am all smooth and lubed up with my lover sliding in and out of my boipussy. ...

6 response(s), 15 votes
backagain80 47 M
3  questions
enima - 5/18/2012

i have been giving myself enimas with the garden hose lately, it gets me sooo hard love to fill my ass with water and then jerk off as i push it out. anybody else enjoy this?

4 response(s), 13 votes
deciple 77 M
3  questions
Can't perform in bed? What is wrong with arranging sex with others for your partner? - 5/15/2012

Because of a back injury, I cannot perform sex with my partner. Rather than let his suffer, I am trying to arrange sex with other men for him. He works, and I stay at home, and have more time to put feelers our in OutPersonals. We are both over 65, but not dead yet. Since I cannot be active in sex, I enjoy watching him having fun with others. I am not the only voyer in the world, so don't ...

2 response(s), 8 votes
deciple 77 M
3  questions
Why do guys ask for sex on this site, and then refuse it when offered? - 5/15/2012

Most of the men who are on this site ask for a man or male couple to have sex with. When I offer to accomidate them, they refuse, whining that "it is too far (less that 20 miles), too old (but we are not dead, or ugly), feel uncomfortable coming over (would you rather meet at a public park, and get busted?), " and so on. If you do not want sex, do not ask for it. If it is offeredd that ...

3 response(s), 10 votes
deciple 77 M
3  questions
How does one go about finding a sub for a dom? - 5/14/2012

I have tried gay papers, etc, and gay web sites. I guess I just do not know who to word the ad. Anybody help?

5 response(s), 6 votes
bluestar97 65 M
2  questions
Spray cum on my face, Will you? - 5/13/2012

Hello, I find it very erotic to have a man spray his cum in my mouth and all over my face..What do you think?

8 response(s), 17 votes
oralvirgin4cock 56 M
2  questions
How do I show I'm interested and remain subtle? - 4/27/2012

I work-out regularly at a local gym and this older fit stud caught my eye in the locker room about a month ago. He just struck me as someone who may appreciate some male bonding as I just get that inkling from him. I have noticed him since and have gotten some smiles but am not sure how to go about showing that I'm interested in putting my hands and mouth all over his body. When walking in the ...

8 response(s), 9 votes
stickumup 71 M
1  question
how far is too far? - 4/25/2012

i saw a video of a guy sitting on a dildo that must have been 18 inches long. he faced the camera and sat down on it. you could see it protruding just under his breast bone as he rode up and down on it.

how can this be possible without causing some sort of injury? the large intestine is like a coiled snake so how does one get something that long that far in?

4 response(s), 14 votes